Special: Lessons in Flirtling from an International Pick-Up Artist

So here's the scene: You're in the club and you see a hottie with a body that you absolutely can't take your eyes off of. What do you do? Picking up guys in clubs requires an extra special finesse that other settings (like a book store or a friend's party) don't call for. This is why I asked my friend the International Pick-Up Artist (she really is, her skills work across the world) to share some of her tactics.

First off, never go with the intent of picking up men. Your sole intent is to have fun with your girlfriends, dance it up and have a few drinks while you're at it. That being said, if you truly are having a good time and enjoying yourself, chances are, there's gonna be a cute guy eyein' you at some point. If someone does catch your fancy, my advice is, make eye contact. I know this is a given but some girls are too nervous to look a guy straight in the eye. I don't mean be all stalkerish but hold a glance for a second or two and let the edge of your mouth curl up; a little bit of a smile always helps. Once that initial contact has been made and you're ballsy enough to approach the man, from my experience, make silly conversation. Yeah, I said it, silly conversation. For example, if you catch the dude yawning say something like "late night for you?" or "that's not a yawn I see already is it?" If he seems like he's just kind of standing around ask him where his dance partner is or if he's afraid to bust out his best moves. If he doesn't smile or isn't intrigued in some way, he's not worth striking up a conversation with anyway. If he does bite (and he will, even if for just a few minutes) share a laugh and begin the conversation - who did you come here with? Have you been here before? What other places do you like to go to? Etc. From there, you should be able to get a vibe of whether or not you like this guy to continue the conversation and if he feels the same way.

So there you have it. With this advice, you should be able to end every night out with a fist full of numbers! Still unsure about how to implement these tactics? After watching the video below you'll be a pro. Happy Dating!

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